Valentine’s Day in France, or La Saint-Valentin, is a celebration of love, romance, and sweet traditions. Known as one of the most romantic countries in the world, France has long been associated with l’amour. But how do the French actually celebrate this special day? Here’s a closer look at French Valentine’s Day traditions, some fun facts about Valentine’s Day in France, and my own traditions.
Valentine’s Day Traditions in France
Unlike in some countries, Valentine’s Day in France is primarily a day for couples rather than friends or family. There are no elaborate gift exchanges in classrooms, nor are Valentine’s cards exchanged among friends. Instead, the focus is on celebrating romantic relationships. Here are some classic French Valentine’s Day traditions:
- Romantic Dinners: Couples often celebrate with an intimate dinner at a cozy restaurant or a homemade meal accompanied by a bottle of French wine or champagne. Paris, the City of Love, is home to countless romantic dining spots.
- Exchanging Small Gifts: Rather than extravagant presents, the French prefer thoughtful, meaningful gestures. Popular choices include flowers (especially red roses), chocolates, and handwritten love notes.
- Love Letters: Continuing the legacy of French literary romance, many couples write heartfelt letters or poems for each other on Valentine’s Day.
- Trips for Two: For those looking to go above and beyond, planning a romantic getaway—whether to Paris or a quaint French village—makes for a quintessential Valentine’s Day celebration.
Facts About Valentine’s Day in France
- The Village of Love: Did you know there’s a village in France called Saint-Valentin? Located in central France, this charming village goes all out for Valentine’s Day with special events, decorations, and even a “lover’s garden.”
- No Friends, Just Lovers: In France, Valentine’s Day is exclusively for romantic partners. Unlike in some countries, it’s not common to celebrate with friends or exchange cards with colleagues.
- Origins of Valentine’s Day: The holiday is believed to be linked to the French Duke Charles of Orléans, who sent love letters to his wife while imprisoned in the Tower of London in the 15th century. These letters are thought to be some of the earliest Valentine’s notes.
Happy Valentine’s Day in French
If you’re in France or want to wish someone a happy Valentine’s Day in French, the phrase to use is Joyeuse Saint-Valentin! You can pair it with a sweet message like Je t’aime (I love you) or Tu es mon amour (You are my love).
Romantic Valentine’s Day in Paris: What To Do?
If you’re celebrating Valentine’s Day in Paris, take a page from my book and enjoy the incredible culture the city has to offer. Paris is a city of romance, and its museums are no exception. Visit Le Musée de la Vie Romantique (reopening in 2026) in the 9th arrondissement, a charming space dedicated to romantic art and literature, or explore Le Musée Rodin, where the sculptures tell the story of love and passion. The museum is also steeped in history, including the love story between Rodin and Camille Claudel, which adds an extra layer of romance to your visit.
For a no-fuss yet memorable date night, I highly recommend dining at my favorite restaurant, Aux Prés. The cozy ambiance and delicious French cuisine make it perfect for an intimate evening. After dinner, elevate the experience with cocktails at the iconic Lutetia Hotel bar. It’s the ideal setting for a luxurious Valentine’s toast.
Finally, enjoy a walk home to enjoy the Paris lights – bonus points if you’re taking a bridge to cross the Seine, an extra romantic Paris activity.
My Personal Valentine’s Day Tradition
While the French focus on romance, I’ve created a special Valentine’s tradition with my children. Every year, I go to Ladurée on Rue Bonaparte, one of Paris’s most iconic macaron shops, and buy each of them a beautiful box of macarons. Their favorite flavors are always in shades of pink, red, or purple—fruits rouges, framboise, or cassis.
It’s a simple but meaningful way to show them love and create memories. They adore the ritual, and it’s become something they look forward to every year. No fancy gift baskets or cards—just a moment of joy shared over their favorite treats and a beautiful box they can hide little treasures in when it’s empty.
Celebrate Love the French Way
Whether you’re planning a romantic evening or creating your own family traditions, Valentine’s Day in France offers endless inspiration for celebrating love. From indulging in macarons to writing heartfelt notes, there’s a uniquely French way to make the day special.
And if you’re curious about other French traditions, don’t miss our guide to Chandeleur traditions for more insights into the charm of French celebrations.
Happy Valentine’s Day—or should we say, Joyeuse Saint-Valentin! May your day be filled with love, laughter, and maybe even a box of macarons. ❤️